“KYA ZAROORAT HAI TUMHE APNE WALIDAIN KA KAHNA MANNE KI, TUM APNE FAISLE KHUD LE SAKTE HO, AGAR UNHONE TUMHE PALA HAI TO YE TO UNKA FARZ THA, UNKE ZAMANE MEIN ZINDIGI ASAN THI, TUM APNI JAGAH BILKUL THEEK HO, KOI ZAROORAT NAHI HAI BUDHO KI KHIDMAT KI, TUM KHUD APNE FAISLE LIYA KARO QAMYABI TUMHARE QADAM CHOOMEGI”.
QURAN MAFHOOM: Ya ALLAH mere walidain par rahem farma jis tarah unhone mujhpar rahem farmaya tha.
Is jaded daur mein jabki kafi kuch badal raha hai isi daur mein Walidain ke nafarman bhi badhte ja rahe hain, jin walidain ne inki khidmat ki, rato ko jag jag kar inhe rote huey chup karaya, jin walidain ke liye unke bacho ki takleef unke dilo mein kisi khanjar se kam nahi lagti, jin walidain ne apna sab kuch luta diya, apna waqt aur apna paisa bhi bacho ke liye sarf kar diya, puri puri god mein liye baithti thi maa, sari sari ratein baap jaga karte the ki mera bacha chup ho jaye, kabhi bache ko koi takleef pahunchi ya bimari pahunchi to wahi walidain duniya ke kisi doctor ko nahi chodte ki use dikha kar uski takleef khatam na kar de, sirf walidain he hote hain ki jab tum ghar ke bahar hote ho to bhi tumhari fikr mein lage rehte hain, ye walidain he hote hain jo tumhare late ane par tumhe call kar ke poochte hain mera bacha der kaise ho gayi, agar thand hoti to maa kahti mere bache jacket pahen le, sweter pahen le kahin thand na kha jana, kahin tujhe koi takleef na ho jaye, kahin tu bimar na pad jana, bap bhi isi fikr mein rehte hain kahin mera jigar ka tukda thand na kha jaye, garmi ka mausam ho to bhi fikr mein rehte hain, barsat ho to tum bhig jaoge is fikr mein rehte hain, aur agar kabhi bhig jate ho to sabse pahle tumhare bal tumhari maa he poochti hai aur naye kapde deti hai ki mera bacha ise badal le warna thand kha jayega, itni mehnat aur mashakkat ke bad wo humein bada karti hai, har ache bure ki tameez sikhati hai, bolne se lekar chalne tak aur ghar se lekar bahar tak jab tak hum samajhdar nahi ho jate hamare walidain har qurbani dete hain aur aaj hum bade hokar unhi walidain par ghussa karte hain, unhi walidain ko bewakoof samjhte hain, unhi walidain par chillate hain, unhi walidain ko bura samajhte hain, unhi walidain ki 2 bat bardasht nahi karte, unhi walidain ki dant humein buri lagne lagti hai, unhe kuch paise dena hamein nagawar ghuzarne lagte hain, jinhone apni kamayi luta di hum par aaj jab hamari bari aayi hai to humein thode se paise bahut zyada lagne lagte hain, har shakhs us waqt ko yad karna chaiye jab wo apne baap ke samne hath phaila kar khada hota tha ki abba 1 rupya de dijiye, abba 2 rupaye de dijiye cheez lani hai, mere ache abba 5 rupaye de dijiye fala khilauna lana hai.
Hum agar soche to humein ek ek bat yad ayegi jo zid hum apne walidain se kiya karte the, yad karo us waqt ko jab tumhari class ka koi bacha tumse acha bag lekar ata tha to tum kiske pas jate the ye kahne ke liye ki mujhe isse acha bag chahiye? Yad karo jab tumhare rishtodaro ke bacho ke pas koi naya khilauna ata tha to tum waisa he khilaune ko lene ke liye kiske pas jate the? Yaad karo jab kabhi shaher mein circus laga karti thi, kabhi numaish laga karti thi to tum kisse zid kiya karte the aur tumhe kaun wahan lekar jata tha? tumhe ice creame khilata tha, tumhe jhule jhulwata tha, kaun tha wo shakhs? Ye wahi shakhs tha jise tum ghoor kar dekha karte ho, uski nafarmani kiya karte ho, Aaj bahut rona ata hai ki hum apne he walidain ke nafarman ho gaye, hum apne he walidain ko ankhe dikhane wale ho gaye, hum apne he walidain ke liye musibat lane wale ho gaye. Bahut kuch hai likhne ko bolne ko aur sunne ko lekin ab amal par ane ka waqt hai.
Jo log apne walidain ka dil dukha rahe hain wo ye na soche ki unhe iski saza Yaumul Jaza ke din milegi, balki sirf ek ye gunah hai Walidain ki nafarmani jiki saza isi duniya mein admi dekhta hai, aur maazi dohrata hai, jisne apne walidain se badsulooki ki, uske bache usse 99% ummeed hai ki wahi badsulooki karenge jo isne apne walidain se ki thi.
Isliye tamam musalman bhaiyon se ghuzarish hai ki jaise he shaitan ye waswasa dale ki FASHION ke sath chalo aur waqt ke sath chalo khwah kuch bhi pahenna pade, to foran ye dua “AAUZUBILLAHI MINASHSHAIYTANIR RAJEEM” padhe aur shaitan ke munh par ek zannate dar thappad dekar bhaga de aur kahe ki kya tu humein bhi nafarman banana chahta hai jaisa tu khud bana.
WALIDAIN KI RAZA MEIN, ALLAH AUR USKE RASOOL SAWW KI RAZA HAI.
JITNA ZYADA AAP SHAITAN KE NAFARMAN BANENGE ALLAH KE UTNE HE QAREEB HOTE JAYENGE AUR SHAITAN KE FARMABARDAR ALLAH SE DOOR HOTE JAYENGE.
JAZAKALLAHU FIDDARAIN…
Muhammad Raghib Khan
A Slave of ALLAH SWT.
A Slave of ALLAH SWT.
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